ANIMAL: A Case Study in Neglect Trauma

I recently watched the film Animal, and I don’t think I’ve ever cringed this much in the space of a few hours. It was the […]

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7 Tips for Men Who Want to Heal

I’ve been reflecting a lot on the men in my life, including family, friends, and clients. I spend a lot of time coaching women, but […]

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3 Ways Older Women Embody Patriarchy

I’ve been pondering this topic for some time. It’s a difficult one because I’ve been on the receiving end of these tactics from older women. […]

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Rocky Aur Rani: A Patriarchal Kahani

There seems to be a trend in Bollywood movies lately. Toxic patriarchy is being addressed – more and more vehemently. I mentioned Satyaprem ki Katha […]

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Come on Barbie, Let’s Smash the Patriarchy?

I had resolved not to watch Barbie, the movie. I acknowledge it was due to my irritation at what Barbie represents to me: patriarchal expectations […]

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5 Reasons We Don’t Stand Up for Ourselves

This post was triggered by a particular moment in the film, Satyaprem ki Katha, which I very highly recommend by the way, and won’t spoil […]

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3 Insights about Patriarchy and Pleasure

Of all places, I learned on TikTok about a film from June 2022 called Good Luck to You, Leo Grande, starring the inimitable Emma Thompson. […]

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5 Lessons about Patriarchy and Trauma: Tara vs Bilal Review

Yes, spoiler alert, but the movie’s been out for a few weeks. I’ve been a fan of Harshvardhan Rane since Sanam Teri Kasam – a […]

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3 Reasons Women are Disempowered and 5 Steps to Change It

Recently, I gave a talk at an event organized by the local chapter of the Women’s Federation for World Peace. My talk was entitled: “3 […]

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7 Ways to Stop Internalizing Patriarchy

I’ve noticed in the last several workshops I’ve facilitated, that feminists, like the rest of us, have internalized patriarchal ways of being. Indeed, I wrote […]

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