5 Ways Traumatized People can Harm You

I’ve been reflecting a lot on how people create harm, often subconsciously, because they refuse to work on their trauma. Or perhaps because they cannot […]

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5 Ways to Catch a Manipulator in the Act

Recently, I’ve had some interesting experiences that forced me to observe carefully. I wanted to see if I was being manipulated. What I found helpful […]

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3 Ways to Know if you’re Being Groomed for Emotional Abuse

Recently, I met a person who instantly felt like someone I had known before. I felt a sense of recognition and connection. It was a […]

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Becoming a Swimmer: On the Other Side of a Phobia

Yesterday I went for a swim after a day off. I felt strong, using my paddles to build upper body strength. I tend to start […]

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