Why Toxic Workplaces Are a Development Issue in the Pacific

As a life and leadership coach, I’ve been exploring a theme that continues to surface across coaching sessions, research, and conversations with leaders: trauma doesn’t […]

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5 Ways Traumatized People can Harm You

I’ve been reflecting a lot on how people create harm, often subconsciously, because they refuse to work on their trauma. Or perhaps because they cannot […]

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5 Ways to Catch a Manipulator in the Act

Recently, I’ve had some interesting experiences that forced me to observe carefully. I wanted to see if I was being manipulated. What I found helpful […]

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3 Ways to Know if you’re Being Groomed for Emotional Abuse

Recently, I met a person who instantly felt like someone I had known before. I felt a sense of recognition and connection. It was a […]

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4 Steps to Healing your Triggers

Over the last several months, I’ve been working with my therapist on how to manage my emotional triggers. What I learned has changed me – […]

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11 Factors that Surround Negativity

In a previous post, we looked at what negativity was, how it manifested itself in people and the signs that alert us to negative people. […]

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Mrs. Deshpande: The Making of a Serial Killer

We watched Mrs. Deshpande (Hotstar) recently, and it was gripping because of the mystery surrounding the identity of the serial killer. It is adapted from […]

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The 2 Sides to a Vulnerable Narcissist

The vulnerable or covert narcissist is an archetype I’ve seen more than enough of personally and professionally in my lifetime. As it turns out, I […]

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18 Opportunities: Looking Back and Moving Forward

My previous post contained many reflections about my work in 2025 and some tips for 2026. Yet, I cannot resist this one. I saw this […]

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From Patterns to Freedom

I snapped recently. I was exhausted from holding space for a ton of people. I then immersed myself in something that was heavy. I played […]

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