Ek Deewane Ki Deewaniyat: A Hot Mess of Trauma, Patriarchy, and Ethical Nightmares

Hypervigilance led me to watch Ek Deewane Ki Deewaniyat, a new Bollywood release. I was drawn to the movie because of its soundtrack, and because […]

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Indomitable: Trauma Won’t Win

A reflection on my own journey. Not for the faint-hearted – trigger warning: child abuse. When the body is weary, and the mind is full, […]

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3 Epiphanies about Change

Recently I read the fabulous book, When Everything Changes, Change Everything, by Neale Donald Walsch. Mom (Dr. Margaret) read it before me, and was mesmerized […]

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Overcoming a Phobia: Swimming through Limiting Beliefs Part II

It’s been 6 months since I started swimming, and 3 months since I last wrote about my swimming journey. As it happens, today is Diwali […]

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4 Signs You are the Black Sheep in your Family

I recently came across a system used in therapy, called Family Systems Theory. (FST) It was developed by psychiatrist Murray Bowen in the 1950s and […]

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6 Ways in Which Patriarchy Harms Boys and Men: Man-ic Masculinity

In our new Beyond Medicine (BM) series – Man-ic Masculinity: How Patriarchy Harms Boys and Men, we look at a number of ways that patriarchy […]

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Living with a Manipulator: 4 Ways to Manage the Abusive Cycle

Trauma patterns play out in cycles. With all my work as a coach and facilitator, plus my own experiences as trauma survivor, I’m in a […]

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5 Reflections on Emotional Baggage

In our baggage claim series as part of our Beyond Medicine service on Facebook, we summarized and reflected on the emotional baggage in our last episode. We […]

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Musings on Hypervigilance

It’s time to sleep. My body is appropriately tired from swimming. But there’s a portal in my stomach through which sleep has disappeared to another […]

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Feeling Sri Lanka: A Reflection

I’ve just returned from my first trip to Sri Lanka. This post contains some reflections, in no particular order. Sri Lanka feels like a riper […]

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