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A client recently shared with me a video in which Carl Jung breaks down what empaths are, and our role in the world. It was quite a journey – this video. I felt so resonant and seen. Such an articulate description of my life journey I have not heard before. Let me summarize Jung’s perspective with some examples from my life journey. See if this resonates for you, too:

1. Awakener in Unconscious Dynamics: Jung maintains that the empath is not a healer, but an awakener – someone who can feel all the residual emotions of generations, even centuries. He says the empath is the archetype of the wounded mirror. The collective unconscious does not respect boundaries – empaths feel all the emotions and largely these emotions are not their own. Empaths may assume they are sensitive or broken; this assumption is a pathway empaths must take, into their psyche. On this journey they encounter autonomous complexes – born of trauma – which are projections of many families, communities, cultures. Awakening comes in phases – disillusionment, surrendering the world’s burden , setting boundaries, and a sacred perception of one’s role as witness. I was told by my acupuncturist in my first ever session that she could smell the burning of generations of anger of abused women. This was the moment I realized I was releasing much more than my own pain. It was 2016, and I had been actively engaged in my healing journey for ten years at this point.
2. Alchemist of Collective Shadow: If empaths can withstand all these emotions, they become alchemists who make revelations disrupting the ego’s fantasies. The collective shadow contains racism, war, genocide, betrayal, abuse, but also joy and sacred knowledge. The awakened empath doesn’t only weep for suffering, but for the the loss of the ecstatic, and the light that society refuses to see. Jung’s overall message is that the empath is not here to fix, but to bring light to the truth of what we need: to acknowledge our pain without judgment. As a child, I carried the weight of the planet on my little shoulders: environmental ills, war, famine, and so many other pains. I could feel it all. I succumbed to depression as a teenager. Over time, I learned to discern and then start to heal my trauma from childhood, and now I see myself as a channel for light and healing.
3. Witness: Empathy fused with shadow work is revolution – what Jung calls entering the darkness as a guide. To witness without merging – the empath stands at the edge of the abyss and holds space, not as a sponge, but as an oracle. The empath’s role is to say: I see you, but I am not you. The oracle is on the fringe between worlds – and often the oracle is punished. This is part of the empath’s journey – to be ridiculed for pointing out what others cannot yet see. In my coaching work, I focus on listening, witnessing, and being a mirror or sounding board. I completely resonate with the punishment part too – every so often there are clients who will blame me for their retaliation and refusal to do their inner work. My presence triggers them.
4. Presence of Power: Empaths carry ancestral memories – their symptoms cannot be explained by trauma alone, according to Jung. The empath is chosen to carry the unlived stories of the world. Empaths experience depression, and other pains – they are terrified of their own power. Their power, when misunderstood, becomes co-dependency, but when understood, is transformative. They don’t need to fix, they simply see and in their seeing, others remember what they are. This is the medicine of the empath – healing by being. They are not meant to be helpers, through service, but through revelation. Their nervous system is permeable – allowing the collective, the ache of the world – that is moving through them. Dreams of empaths are mythic, because this is sacred, mystical work. I have often felt, very viscerally, the collective pain of living beings – of Gaia. I feel it as a torment in my body, as a sense of upheaval. An emotional shift of tectonic plates, if you will. I sometimes go to an ancient tree and place my hands on its trunk to receive wisdom and light and to ease the suffering I am carrying. A suffering that isn’t just my own.
5. Solitary Sojourner: The empath travels alone, but aloneness is not loneliness. The empath must retreat from society as preparation – to receive visions. Empaths embody the living antidote to unconsciousness. In ancient cultures, the empaths were the shamans, oracles, visionaries. They were seen as intermediaries between the invisible and visible. Today, we silence what older cultures honored: the sacred. Empaths suffer this silence. Jung calls their bodies a map for the sacred. Empaths must not judge their bodies – but listen as oracles. The body provides clues and signals to be decoded. For instance, when I am speaking to certain colleagues, my stomach tightens up – there are truths that my stomach is telling me. My job is to listen and translate what is unspoken. This is threatening to the clients – to speak the shadow and expose the collective unconsciousness they are hiding from. These are the clients that run away after the initial session or two – they don’t want to face their pain.
6. Scapegoat: Often, the empath is scapegoated, says Jung, but their role is to release this archetype. The empath can embrace sovereignty by witnessing and releasing the collective shadow. The collective shadow is not evil, it is unlived – it is what we have not dared to integrate. The empath must lead, with embodiment – and model what it means to live deeply and freely. To feel. I cannot agree enough. I was scapegoated many times, in many organizations, for standing up and asking for balance, wellbeing, and equity. I was thrown under the bus for being the hardest worker. To be fair, back then I was also the co-dependent enabler, performing for approval. It was a cycle I have ended.
7. Compass: An empath’s inner feelings are a compass, providing guidance. The unawakened empath seeks validation; the awakened empath seeks catharsis. The mature empath seeks connection (not fusion) – between sovereign souls. Feeling is not enough – discernment is necessary, because not all suffering is theirs. The empath must learn which energies are theirs to witness. Emotional chaos is not spiritual depth. Jung maintains that the empath’s goal is to refine feeling and become a chalice – an ancient symbol of mystery and sanctification. Learning to hold suffering without becoming it is the path. The empath must face their own shadow – the secret need to be needed, and desire to rescue others. Then they can love without condition. I recently went through this exact process. I was trying to rescue a loved one. I realized it was not mine – this energy, this trauma, and this pain. I let it go, and I realized love only increased, and I came into a new chapter where I released my old pattern for good.
8. Coherence: Empaths emit a field of coherence, according to Jung. Others feel it and soften in the awakened empath’s presence – they are seen. To see without judgment is the rarest form of love. This is love the empath is capable of, only once they have embraced their own shadow and divinity. Then the empath can see in ways that are catalytic – their being becomes (1) a mirror – to reflect what others cannot yet name; (2) a magnet – to draw from people what is hidden, and (3) a map – to model the journey from unconscious fusion to sovereign presence. In my coaching, facilitation, and volunteer work – making motivational videos, I find that clients, and viewers tell me how I am a sounding board for them, and they are able to transform their lives. This is my role – to show up as authentically as possible, and let that presence be the catalyst. I think Jung has identified this so clearly – it is very affirming.
9. Sacred Symbol: The empath is not born to heal, it’s a side effect of their presence, says Jung. Their job is to awaken – to reveal the gold within the shadow. An empath is the dream’s custodian. The dreams of the empath are transmissions. When the empath studies their dreams – they unlock their own mythologies. Living unconsciously haunts them. When they awaken, they become authors – they become living text. This awakened presence disturbs, liberates, and says: I am here fully, and in my being, I invite you to awaken. This work is uncomfortable but sacred. Sacred things don’t ask for approval, they ask for integrity. The empath must ask: am I aligned? They must stop trying to be understood, but live as a symbol. Symbols don’t explain themselves – they initiate. An empath is a living symbol of wholeness – not perfection. Empaths are not light workers, but twilight workers. This in-between territory of the twilight is where transformation happens. Twilight is preparation. Empaths work on the border – they are called to be the bridge between what was and what is becoming. They are midwives to the future – not the technological future – but the psychic future in which humans remember that the soul is not a metaphor. The soul seeks mystery, which is a presence to be revered. When I started Alchemus Prime, many told me they didn’t understand what I was doing, even family members were opposed. I knew with a conviction that was mystical (from a Native American ceremony in which I received a vision) that I must do what is channeling through me. I initiated many things through my company: new systems, frameworks, books, guides, and ways of working. I continue to do what my inner guidance shows me – and now, ten years later, I see the wisdom of my journey through Jung’s archetypal lenses. I am seen, affirmed, and I feel coherent.
10. Reflection, not Repression: Empaths transmit the new frequency. Jung inspiringly describes it as empaths teaching by refusing to numb – empaths feel as an act of creation. New myths, archetypes and new ways of belonging are being birthed. An empath is a myth maker. They don’t live according to the myths handed down by a wounded world. They create symbols for what the culture has not yet named. they are not here to fit into the existing paradigm, but to bring in a new order, an ancient wisdom – that lives in the gut and heart. It happens when you stop asking for permission, stop apologizing. It’s part of your design – an empath’s energy will illuminate. Empaths are here to make people of the grief they swallowed as children, to make them conscious of the shadow they project. To stand as a mirror is to risk being shattered. Every shattering is a beginning, a portal, a vessel for the archetypal – through wounds, the divine enters. Humans who feel deeply, love profoundly and weep loudly are the humans we need to be. I recently wrote a book on belonging and created a new alchemy symbol to represent what it means to belong as we are, right now. Even more recently, I experienced betrayal, and the pain shocked me into opening to a deeper level of understanding about trauma and why betrayal happens. Both these experiences, through deep and safe reflection (not repression) allowed me to learn and grow to the next level of my purpose.
11. Boundaries: Empaths must unlearn the savior complex; they must unlearn the addiction to approval, and that they are valuable only for what they can give. Jung asserts that empaths are valuable because they feel, and remember. Remembering is the gift. It is a lonely path but the soul does not seek comfort – it seeks coherence and truth. The empath becomes radiant and directive, not by force but by presence. Not by trying but by being the mirror, the chalice, the threshold, and the symbol. Not to heal but to awaken, not through ideology, but through intimacy, not through performance, but through presence, not through avoiding pain, but through embracing it as the gateway to wholeness. This dying world needs empaths’ sacred sensitivity – not as a weapon against themselves but as a beacon that says: I will no longer carry what is not mine, I will no longer bleed for what will not change, I will no longer fuse with suffering to prove I care. Instead, I will feel with clarity, witness with strength, and speak with love that pierces illusion. This is the empath’s revolution. Not loud, but seismic; not visible but transformative; not rewarded but remembered by those who are ready to wake. I really feel this closing portion of Jung’s speech speaks to my recent experiences of letting go of those who have been dumping their trauma onto me. I stood up and said no, and let them go. I have reinforced my boundaries, putting myself first and honoring both my sacred path, and theirs. Because I am finally understanding that my value is not through my services as a loving witness. My value is in being my authentic self. I am an empath. A chalice, a symbol, a threshold, and a mirror. Being around me is uncomfortable, and I’m not here to be liked. I’m here to create.

I cannot encourage you enough to watch the Carl Jung video and to reflect on your own journey. The learning and unlearning are truly priceless. To my client and fellow traveller who sent me this video – I am beyond grateful.